Golden showers, also known as water sports, piss play, and/or urolagnia, is a huge fetish, and one that many people love to explore. People have been using urine to enhance and arouse sexual pleasure for centuries, and it seems to be rapidly increasing in popularity. PornHub reported a whopping 287% increase in searches for golden showers in January last year after Donald Trump was accused of engaging in piss play in a Moscow hotel room.
For a lot of people, they want to either piss on their partner or be pissed on. However, this isn’t an essential. Some get turned on simply by watching someone else urinating, while others like to take it further and taste it. There are so many possibilities when it comes to piss play that you’re sure to find a way to enjoy it, no matter what your other fetishes are.
Is It Safe?
As with many fetishes it’s not risk-free; drinking someone else’s urine can greatly increase the risk of bacterial and viral infections. And if your partner has recently taken medications or drugs, they can also be passed to you through consumption. If you decide to consume urine, it is recommended that the person providing the urine drinks water about an hour before the session is due to take place. It’s never a good idea to drink urine while dehydrated, as it will make you even more so.
If you have open sores on your skin, certain STDs and infections could be spread to you through skin-to-urine contact. Getting tested regularly would put both of your minds at ease and keep you safe. In the unlikely event that you do get sick, book an appointment with your GP straight away. A doctor will be able to diagnose and prescribe the right medicine to flush the virus out of your system.
What Makes Urine Play So Sexy?
Some people associate piss play with humiliation, so they want to incorporate it into a hot BDSM scene. Others just really get off on watching people piss, and find it horny to join in.
It can also be incredibly intimate. It’s one of the kinkiest things you can do with your partner, and sharing an experience like that is something you will never forget.
Beyond just urinating on each other, some watersports enthusiasts do other things like drinking each other’s urine, or engaging in tease-and-denial games. For instance, one person is instructed to drink a bottle of water then hold their wee for as long as possible, while their partner does other sexy things to them.
People want to try watersports for many different reasons. If you and your partner have decided that you want to give it a go, here are some tips for you to make sure you have a great time.
Getting Started
If you decide to give water sports a go, talk it through with your partner first and plan ahead. As with any fetish, agree on a safe word beforehand, so if either of you get uncomfortable you can call it and bring the scene to an end. Also discuss mess control and carefully select where you will be engaging in the activity so you can avoid extra laundry or worse messes – a shower or bath tub is a good place to experiment with water sports.
Start slowly – watersports isn’t for everyone, so try a few simple exercises first to help you decide if this is something you and your partner will enjoy. Try watching your partner, and have them watch you, urinating. Take it up a notch – have a shower with your partner, take it in turns to urinate and hold your hands in each other’s stream. As you get more comfortable, lie in the bath and ask you partner to urinate over your legs/stomach, and vice versa.
Positioning is important. One of the most popular positions is aptly called the ‘golden shower’, which involves the person who is going to be pissed on kneeling down in front of their partner, waiting to accept their stream. Decided you want to swallow their pee? Get on your knees. It can be difficult to aim in the right way to get your piss in their mouth, so this might take some practice. Think of it a lot like a facial but with piss.
Because golden showers can be enjoyed in a number of different ways it’s important to open your mind and explore each other’s fantasies. To begin with, you might want to feel the sensation of warm pee on your body, but you might then discover that you want to take it further after your first time. So, don’t forget to talk through the scene with your partner. What did you both enjoy? What would you change? What would you like to further explore? There is no need to go too in-depth, but reflecting on your sexual experiences will allow you to work on, and improve your experiences.