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Anal Toys: A Guide

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t’s true; when it comes to sex toys, women get a better selection than us guys. However, this doesn’t mean that there’s not plenty of toys for us to play with. There’s still a great variety of super sexy, super kinky toys for men to choose from. This guide will focus on the variety of anal toys that are available, and how they will rock your world. Anal sex toys are popular for one simple reason; because it feels fantastic. The sole purpose of these toys is to massage your prostate – so be prepared for a mind blowing orgasm!

Choosing The Right Toy

Anal toys are both enjoyable and easy to use. Nevertheless, there’s a few things to take into consideration before purchasing your first toy. Firstly, buy from a respected store and if possible, check the quality of the toy before purchasing. Choose a toy that is made from plastic or silicone, and avoid toys that are made from wood or glass at all costs. Anal toys are generally broader at the base to prevent it for being sucked too far into the rectum – keep this in mind when browsing, to avoid any nasty surprises later on.

Before you get to the checkout, make sure that you buy plenty of lube. The anus and rectum don’t lubricate on their own, so they need a little help. Lube will reduce friction and will make the experience far more pleasurable. There’s a variety of anal lubes available, but any lube will do the job. Just make sure you apply plenty of it before the fun begins.

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When it comes to anal toys, they can be broken down into four main categories; butt plugs, anal dildos, anal beads and anal vibrators. Each of these toys with stimulate the prostate directly or indirectly, so there’s no right or wrong toy for first time users. Simply choose which one takes your fancy!

Butt Plug

Butt plugs are specially designed for anal stimulate, with a tapered tip for easy insertion and typically a flared base for safety. Using a butt plug can add a new dimension of pleasure to both masturbation and sexual intercourse. What makes a butt plug so special? During the male orgasm, the sphincter contracts. A butt plug keeps the muscles open increasing the pressure, and increasing the intensity of the orgasm. Butt plugs are also great for beginners, as the tapered shape allows you to experiment with how much penetration you can take.

Anal Dildo

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Dildos are generally the most popular of the anal toys; this is due to their simplicity and the variety that’s available. When choosing your first dildo, go for one that is smooth, flexible and relatively small. Once you are comfortable with using one, you can start exploring the different textures and sizes that are available.

Anal Beads

Anal beads often get overlooked and are regarded as taboo. However, they are often the cheapest and easiest to use. Anal beads are made up of a series of graduating balls on a bendy chain; great for beginners who are unsure of how much they can take. When choosing your beads, look for a set with a flared base or a ring-pull which will make them easy to remove.

Anal Vibrator

Although vibrators are fun, I don’t recommend these to beginners. Anal is great, but we often have to build up to the level of penetration that a vibrator requires. Nevertheless, for those who are a little more experienced – the main attraction of a vibrator is that does all the hard work for you! Most come with different levels that regulate and adjust the vibrations, speeds and sometimes movement. Continue reading Anal Toys: A Guide

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The Importance of Safety In Kinky Play

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Spicing up your sex life often involves getting a little kinky; handcuffs, leather, whips and so forth. Such activities can be fun and super sexy, but if done incorrectly can quickly end a session or result in injury. When it comes to expanding your sexual repertoire; talk, talk and talk some more. You should both be on the same page and feel comfortable with what’s about to place. Continue reading The Importance of Safety In Kinky Play

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The Growing Interest in Cosplay Sex

Uniforms have, for many years, been a major staple of the Irish kinky scene. Sexy ladies in nurses uniforms or French maids outfit’s have for a long time got guy’s pulses racing, causing a real explosion in the bedroom.

It is no surprise then that, as peoples interests change, the love of uniform sex has developed and become even more popular. This is the case with ‘cosplay’, and as a result, ‘cosplay sex’.

Cosplay, for those who don’t know, is an activity where participants wear costumes or accessories to represent a specific character or idea from a work of fiction. There is a section of the ‘cosplay community’ who concentrate on characters with sex appeal. Consequently, how can that fail to become a source of much fun?

Many Different Genres

The favourite genres for cosplay are manga, anime, comic books, video games and films. This may create a perception that people who do this kind of stuff are ‘nerds’. However, when you think about it, look at the popularity of the superhero movies such as ‘Batman’ and ‘Superman’, are they really minority interests? Of course not; geek is the new cool.

Originally a Japanese phenomenon, cosplay has become increasingly popular in the United States, where the San Diego Comic-Con is the largest convention for fans of the genre. The largest in Britain is the London MCM Expo, whilst the biggest one in Europe is the Japan Expo in Paris.

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But as we said before, it didn’t take long for this whole scene to take on a kinky sexual nature. It is no surprise really, considering that for years men have lusted after cartoon characters such as Wilma Flintstone or Jessica Rabbit. Guys always wished they were real, so in the end, is it any surprise that they would be excited by a hot young woman in a sexy cosplay outfit? I am only surprised it has taken so long to catch on.

For men there are costumes that can express their masculinity, such as Superman or the Incredible Hulk. A muscly guy can get many a woman horny, especially if he is playing a strong character. In the bedroom however, neither partner needs to be a supermodel or Mr Universe, due to the fact that the fantasy is the important thing, not the reality.

Obviously like any other sexual interests, the porn industry has grasped onto the cosplay culture, with many scenes featuring cosplay sex. As with all these things, it is a big circle; The more people see it in porn, the more it will give them ideas in the bedroom.

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The Rise in Interest of Kinky Gear

Here at Kinky.ie, we have seen how more and more people have become interested in the kinky lifestyle. With so much demand for bondage gear and vibrators, it is apparent that people are moving away from more conventional sex into more exciting encounters. An interest in cosplay sex, and uniform sex in general is a natural step as people spice up their adult fun.

So next time you see a girl who is into her Japanese cartoons, or is obsessed with superhero movies, just thing what fun you could be having in the bedroom. Cosplay certainly has a lot to offer for all you lovers out there!

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Fifty Shades of Kinky

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Now when I say fascinating, let’s not pretend it is a literary masterpiece. For the most part I found it poorly written. Not as badly written as The Da Vinci Code by Dan Brown which I consider drivel, but like the now Hollywood blockbuster, the subject matter has really struck a chord with the modern generation. Continue reading Fifty Shades of Kinky