Well, it’s that time of year again. Another year is behind us – so we begin to reflect on the last 12 months and think of our New Year’s Resolutions. Instead of making the same old resolutions; why not plan to make the coming year a slightly kinkier year than this one? Here are some kinky resolutions to shake up and improve your sex life. Continue reading Six New Year Sex Resolutions
Many partners who fail to reach climax have no underlying physical problem. Instead, the problem may be due to the fear of not being able to form. Performance anxiety has become one of the greatest obstacles in the bedroom; sexually and emotionally. For those who are battling with this, you are all too familiar with how debilitating the worrying can be. Most are unaware, however, of how common this is among both men and women. Continue reading How To Cope With Performance Anxiety
Sex can get really boring. We don’t mean for it to, but over time we might find ourselves doing the same positions and the same things in bed over and over again in the hope that somehow something will magically change. The problem is that this never works. Instead, we have to do something differently, and sometimes the best way to spice things up in bed is to try out a new and kinky sex position to make things more exciting. Continue reading Four Fun But Challenging Sex Positions
The Christmas holidays are full of food, booze, and afternoons in front of the TV. Want to get it on but don’t have the energy? Lazy sex positions might be the answer. So they’re not going to be the most adventurous of positions or super kinky, but surprisingly a number of positions lend themselves to no effort sex, so being tired is no longer an excuse. Whether you’re full of turkey, sleep deprived or just feeling lazy, these require little effort but will leave you both feeling amazing. Continue reading The Best Lazy Sex Positions
“Am I sexually normal?”
This is a more common question than you might think. Most people want to know that they fall within the sexually ‘normal’ spectrum, and that whatever is going through their mind when they’re fantasising is acceptable. In all honesty, there really is no normal when it comes to sex; we are all different in our sexual desires and kinks. As long as there’s mutual consent, plenty of communication and you are both safe, it really doesn’t matter what gets you going. Continue reading Are Fetishes Normal?
Impact Play is a more extreme form of paddling or spanking, an intense pounding that is often done with the intent to cause deep tissue bruising. It consists of one person, known as the ‘bottom’, being struck by another person, known as the ‘top’. Due to its popularity, there are plenty of specialised implements available including; floggers, whips, rods, switches, fists, and hands. It is considered part of edge play due to the risk of serious damage if instruments are used incorrectly or without care. Continue reading A Guide To Impact Play
BDSM is two different things, which are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting tied up and spanked, and they are enjoying the feeling of that, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires, and encourage your partner to do the same – this will help you both understand what it that you want from the experience. Continue reading Extreme Sexual Domination
For those who are looking to spice up their sex lives, but aren’t quite sure how, why not try using props in the bedroom? A recent survey concluded that over 70% of the couples interviewed enjoyed introducing new props and toys to the bedroom, and felt that props lead to a better and more varied sex life. One of the many joys of using props is that you don’t have to spend lots of cash – many household items can be used. A little change can go a long way! Continue reading The Best Kinky Sex Props
Recent research has suggested that different foods can affect the taste of semen. There are recommended foods to improve the taste, and those that should be avoided at all costs. Before we get into flavour, keep in mind that everyone has a distinct taste and even if you try the products listed below, your partner might still find the taste of your fluid unpleasant. You semen will never taste like a white wine spritzer, but trying your hand at sweetening it up a little could really enhance your sex life. What do you have to lose? Continue reading How to Make Cum Taste Good!
Have you ever heard of pegging?
Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on and performs anal sex on her male partner. The name came from a poll conducted by Dan Savage a few years ago – a reader wrote in asking for a word to describe this, then unnamed, kinky practice – and pegging was the winning choice. Continue reading A Guide to Pegging
